Because not everything about a romantic relationship is good and fluffy. Most of the time, our strife and negative emotions come to from these types of relationships. Whether it be because of the hurt one is feeling from the other or because some things are just not working out. It does not matter which type of problem you choose because all couples suffer problems and nothing about them is perfect. So we go into couples therapy in West Des Moines.
It is not like in fairy tales where as soon as you get to kiss your princess or your prince everything will be good and you can live your happily ever after. It does not work like that. Our world is so deliciously imperfect that whatever happens that you think is something so good, something else will happen that can counter it and make your day just as equally bad.
This is what you call karma. Or in the world of Fullmetal Alchemist, Equivalent Exchange. Something has to give before you get to have the good stuff. Or if you are already taking the good part of a thing then something bad is going to happen your way. Not as a threat or anything malicious or anything.
That is just the way the world goes. There is a delicate balance to it and slaps us int he faces that no, everything is not all good and dandy, and no, everything is also not bad and horrible. And that is okay. Our world is so full of awful people and awful happenings.
But it too has its beautiful moments and the people behind it the caused all he said beautiful moments. So when you think that you are finally going to be happy because you have no married the absolute love of your life and that it is the one final the thing that will make you truly happy, we are sorry to say that even there is trouble in paradise.
Do you not know of all the troubles a couple can get into? Some of the emotions of the other can cause the other party and this could either result in them fighting or maybe making out until they both fall into the bed for something steamy.
But as much as we would like to say that all relationships are like, there are some that really do not make any sense for us too. The abusive kinds that just take control of everything they do and even their very own partner. The jealousy and possessive mess that revolves around it.
do not get us wrong, if this was fanfic involving our favorite character that we actually might think this was juicy and a nice read. But in real life, this makes us grit our teeth and want to punch the abusive irritating in the face.
If you love someone then should you not treat them the same way you want to be treated? And if there is even love in it, why would you try to hurt the other? Or is that also a kink now?